The first date with a guy is usually the most challenging. You always worry about what to wear and how to act and you might be scared that you will blow it again... So here are some first date tips that could really help you:
- Be confident. What you think of yourself is very important.
- Look your best but not too fancy.
- Be yourself. He has to like you for who you are. If he likes you for something else he is going to end up disappointed when he finds out who you really are and you are going to end up hurt when he’s going to leave you.
- Smile. A cheerful girl is a magnet for boys.
- Laugh at his jokes even if they’re not funny at all. That makes him feel confident.
- Play with your hair. That’s usually a turn on for boys.
- Be honest about anything you tell him. If you lie on your first date and you end up dating him for a long time, you will always have to lie.
- Stay mysterious. Don’t tell him everything about you on your first date or you won’t have any subjects to talk about on the other dates.
- If he kisses you at the end of the date, don’t hesitate to kiss him back. Even if you don’t like him and if you don’t want to be with him, kiss him back. He will remember you as the sweet girl for who he wasn’t good enough.
- Dress casual. You don’t have to be glamorous, just be yourself or else you will have to always dress up like that.
- Don’t talk all the time. Let him take over the conversation once in a while. This way you will get to know him a little. The date is about him too...
- Talk about things he likes once in a while. That way you’ll prove him that you were really listening to him when he was talking.
- Don’t bring your problems up. If you’re complaining from the first date, he isn’t going to want to spend another date with you.
- If it’s cold outside (and if you like the guy you’re dating) you could mention that you’re cold once in a while and he might hold you in his arms.
- If you like him and he doesn’t make a move you could accidentally grab his hand. He might be too shy to grab yours.
- Don’t bring your ex-boyfriends in the discussion unless he asks you about them. If he makes you talk about them, don’t get emotional.
- If he has different views over something, don’t start an argument on your first date.