The first date with a girl is usually the most challenging. You always worry about what to wear and how to act and you might be scared that you will blow it again... So here are some first date tips that could really help you:
- Be confident. What you think of yourself is very important.
- Look your best but not too fancy.
- Be yourself. She has to like you for who you are. If she likes you for something else she is going to end up disappointed when she finds out who you really are and you are going to end up hurt when she’s going to leave you.
- Be honest about anything you tell her. If you lie on your first date and you end up dating her for a long time, you will always have to lie.
- When you meet her, kiss her hand if you want it to be special (most guys kiss girls on the cheek when they first meet them and girls are kind of used to that...dare to be different).
- Bring her a red rose. Even if you won't end up with her, you will remain in her memory as a great guy and she will wish she had you.
- Stay mysterious. Don’t tell her everything about you on your first date or you won’t have any subjects to talk about on the other dates.
- Don’t talk all the time. Let her take over the conversation from time to time. Ask her questions about herself. That will make her open up if she is shy.
- Talk about things she likes once in a while. That way you’ll prove her that you were really listening to her when she was talking.
- Don’t bring your problems up. If you’re complaining from the first date she isn’t going to want to spend another date with you.
- Concentrate on her and nothing else if you want to make her feel important. Don’t call people or stop on the street to talk to others when you’re with her.
- If you don’t want to be with the girl, don’t kiss her. She is going to end up day-dreaming about you if you kiss her because she will believe that you meant something by it.
- If she’s flirting with you or trying to kiss you, it’s ok to flirt and kiss her back. Just let her know that you didn’t mean anything, the next day.
- If you like her you can hold her hand. That’s more sensitive than kissing her. You’re supposed to kiss her at the end of the date.
- Don’t talk to her about anything disgusting, wrong or illegal. Wait until you get to know her a little bit because those subjects might hurt her.
- Don’t bring your ex-girlfriends in the discussion unless she asks you about them. If she makes you talk about them, don’t get emotional.
- Don’t ask her about anything too intimate. If she is shy, she is going to close herself in her shell and hardly talk about anything after you ask her something inappropriate.
- If she has different views over something, don’t start an argument on your first date.